If you have a special man in your life or if you wish your crush liked you back, you need to first think of reasons why he doesn’t like you the way you want him to. Guys are a simple gender…they are easy to please. But then again, like women – they too have a wish list when it comes to their choice of women and sometimes when they realize that what they are looking for in a partner isn’t what you have, they may phase out and not like you the way you want them to.
Furthermore, to guys looks are probably the most important thing when it comes to picking a woman as a partner. Girls / women like guys who are smart, intelligent, funny etc and good looking figures on the list but not always at the number one spot. For guys though, the story is different. If they prefer blonds, they will not pay much attention to a brunette even if she is good looking.
So the point is, if a guy doesn’t like you, it is not necessarily because of any limitations in you. It’s just because of several other reasons. Below are some reasons as to why a guy probably doesn’t like you:
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You don’t have similar interests
Guys like girls who have similar interests as they have so that they can spend time indulging in their interests together. For instance, guys like sports, be it football, baseball, jogging, video games and they look for girls who like at least one of these hobbies. If you don’t have much of a liking for these sports / activities then it’s probably the reason he doesn’t like you. Because he feels that he won’t be able to connect with you. It’s not for nothing that people look for similar interests in their partners after-all.
You aren’t his type
Every guy looks for his “type of girl”. Even when it comes to looks, some guys like the look of a brunette while some guys prefer country girls. The wish list is long but at the end of the day, if you aren’t what he prefers in a partner then its one of the reasons he doesn’t like you as much. Just like girls also have a list – some like athletic men, some like men who are intellectual…every guy too likes a certain type of girl that he prefers to go out with.
You are controlling
In most relationships, guys like to be the dominant one in the relationship. If you are the type of girl who is controlling then they wouldn’t be very comfortable with you and this is why they might not like you.
You are very opinionated
Guys like girls who aren’t opinionated…they feel that it’s easier to have a real conversation with girls then. If you are very opinionated then it will put him in a corner and this is why he won’t like you as much.
You judge his friends
What a guy essentially wants in a partner is someone who can treat his friends with respect and not judge them. But if you are the kind of girl who is always finding faults in his friends then he will not like you. A guy likes to keep his buddies close to him and if a girl comes in the way then they usually stop liking the girl at some point.
You shop a lot
Guys know that most girls like to shop…but if you keep using his money to shop, he is not going to like it and not going to like you eventually. If you shop within limits then he will be open to the idea of dating you for sure but otherwise it will be no-no situation.
You are too clingy
Every body likes their space and this especially is true for guys. Guys love it when their girls trust them and avoid calling when they are alone with their friends or at a bar just hanging out etc. But if you are too clingy and keep calling and texting him, he will feel like he has to keep reporting to you and he won’t like you.
You fight too much
No one likes to fight all the time in a relationship…but if you are the kind who finds faults with everything in life then he is not going to like you because he is not going to be able to deal with all those fights all the time.
You are the jealous kind
If you get jealous at every second girl who he talks to, he will not like you at all. In today’s time it is impossible to avoid talking to people of the other gender and therefore one should always be open to the fact that their partner will have to interact with people of the other gender. Furthermore, it is not uncommon to have close friends belonging to either gender. And if he has a couple of friends who are girls, it shouldn’t make you jealous if he insists that they are just friends. If you keep fighting with him about his friends then he is not going to like you at all.
You don’t treat his parents well
For most guys, their parents, especially their mothers are of great concern to them…if their girl and mother cannot get along well then they tend to have more disagreements with the girl. So if you don’t like his mother or treat the family badly then he is not going to like you.