Things to Keep in Mind When You Ask Her Out
When you plan on asking a girl out you need to keep several things in your mind. First and foremost, think about how serious your feelings are. If you really feel like as though she could be the one for you then plan on how and where you’d ask her out.
There are so many factors that decide whether she will say yes or no. So it’s best to befriend her before you ask her out so you can understand her state of mind and present relationship scenario (whether she is single or seeing someone)…
Girls take their time to accept a guy’s proposal. They don’t just decide to go out with anyone at all. They prefer to get to know someone well before they go on dates with them. By nature, they are very cautious with regards to relationships.
Furthermore, a girl needs to know if you are a good guy or not…this means that she will try and find out about you, your personality, your past etc to see whether you are trustworthy or not.
The best thing you can do from your side is keep the following things in mind before you ask her out:
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Girls like to take things slow

Girls like to be in relationships but they like to take things slow. Today’s girls are career oriented and like to weigh every thing before heading into something. If you are going to ask her out, keep things simple and slow till it looks like she is ready for the next step together.
Girls like a little bit of drama

Most girls like a little of bit drama so if you can then try to add some drama to your proposal. Even a romantic “going down on bended knees” could work…anything that makes them feel special is usually the key to them saying yes.
Girls expect their guys to be serious about them
If you are thinking of asking a girl out, make sure you are absolutely serious about her. This is because a girl will step into something only if she knows the guy is serious about it. Don’t ask her out if you aren’t sure of your own feelings.
Girls hate liars
Clean up your act before you ask her out and be ready to share your secrets with her. Girls hate liars and therefore expect you to be frank about who you are and what you were when they are with someone. So be honest and only when you know that you can handle it, ask her out.
Girls like compliments
Compliment your way to her heart. Girls like compliments so tell her she is beautiful and pretty and make her feel the same. Then one fine day muster up the courage to ask her out. It’s the easiest way to her heart.
Girls like a real man

Girls don’t like boys, they like men. They like it when you fight for them, open car doors for them, buy them flowers and make them feel special. So buckle up and be a man to woe her.
Girls like to feel exclusive

If you are thinking of asking her out, make her feel like she is the prettiest woman on earth. That is the best way to impress a girl. Make her feel exclusive and extra ordinary before you do the asking to ensure a yes.
Girls love to judge
Girls like to judge their boys and their boy’s friends. So make sure that you are ready for some girl bashing in terms of their judgment. When a girl agrees to go out with you, she will want to spend time with you and your friends too to get to know you better.
Girls like to get pampered

If you are ready to pamper her, then ask her out. The easiest way to keep a girl happy is pamper her. Even if you pamper her with simple things like chocolates and flowers it will work in the long run.
Girls need attention
If you have a hectic life then there is no point in asking her out because she will fight with you if you don’t give her enough attention. So give her attention if you can and only if you know you can then ask her out.
Its nothing without some romance
Without romance, a girl gets argumentative in a relationship. So if you aren’t romantic by nature, learn to be. She will expect candlelit dinners and surprise presents from you. If you think you can manage that, then ask her out.
Girls like men with stable jobs
If you really like someone, think about your professional achievements. Its not that every girl is a gold digger, it’s just that they look for security in their guys. So if you have a stable job and decent income, she will be more willing to go out with you.
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January 14, 2012
Avani Peterson
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