If you are in a steady relationship with someone and feel that your girl is cheating on you, then you have to be sure of your suspicion. You cannot just blame someone and make them feel bad without proof. The best thing to do in this case is obviously to ask your girlfriend whether she really is or not. Truth prevails at some time or the other. And if you don’t have the courage to ask then find out yourself by seeking help from common friends, her work colleagues…as a last option you could follow her, although that is very unethical and you could be on the receiving end for it. Look for the following signs if you think your girl is cheating on you:
She takes more time to get ready
Girls normally take lots of time to get ready, its part of their nature. But, if your girl is cheating on you, that means she’s in the first stage of impressing someone with her good looks and therefore she will take more time than usual to look good before going out.
She spends more time on her cell
If she is spending more time than usual texting or talking to someone then this could be a sure sign of her having an affair. But before jumping to conclusions try and observe just for how long the long texting has been going on for before assuming the worst.
See if she smells different
If your girl is seeing someone else, chances are that she will change her perfume or will smell of another man’s perfume. Notice if her scent has changed and if it has…then you probably know the answer.
Notice if she cancels on plans
If your girl is cheating on you then she will be making plans to meet the other person when she’s supposed to meet you (that’s because she probably wont get any other time to do so), so if she’s been canceling a lot in recent times it probably means that she’s cheating on you.
She seems to have lost interest
If your girlfriend who was originally a peppy, happy young thing who looked forward to everything you said and laughed at your antics suddenly seems to be less interested in anything you say or do, then it probably means that she is cheating on you with someone she is more interested in.
She’s been avoiding you
If your girlfriend suddenly starts avoiding you then it probably means that she is trying to break up with you slowly or get you to break up with her. And this is probably because she has found someone else.
She avoids saying she loves you
If your girl stops saying she loves you and avoids saying it when you ask her to, it’s probably because she doesn’t want to because of another person in her life.
She tries to stop hanging around with your friends
When a girl is with a guy, she doesn’t mind hanging out with her guy’s friends. It makes her feel wanted and part of the gang. However, if she suddenly stops meeting them or hanging out with them, then it probably is because of the fact that she is hiding something from everyone – another relationship.
She avoids your calls
Its customary for someone to call back when they see a missed call but if your girl hasn’t been returning any of your calls then it’s a sure sign that she’s avoiding any interaction with you unless necessary and that’s because she’s cheating on you.
She avoids looking at you in the eye when you talk
When someone is trying to hide something or is guilty of something then it’s a sign that there is something brewing inside their mind or heart. If your girl avoids any sort of eye contact when you talk it’s probably because she’s cheating on you.
She makes excuses when you ask her too many questions
If you try asking her too many questions she may avoid giving you straight answers or she may fight back telling you that you have no right to be asking her all these questions. Either way, it’s a sign that she is probably cheating on you and therefore doesn’t want to answer your questions.