Being rejected by a girl is not the end of the world. The sooner you accept that, the better it will be for you.
And besides, there are several reasons as to why a girl decides to reject a guy. Maybe it’s just as simple as her not being ready for a relationship. Or perhaps, she just isn’t ready to fall in love or she’s scared to fall in love with someone. Think logically when you face rejection, because the tendency is for most people to think that its completely their fault that a person has rejected them.
The point is, it’s not always the case. There are various factors ranging from a girl’s mood, thought process, likes and dislikes that lead to them rejecting a guy. Ask yourself, if you favored blond, would you choose to go out with a brunette?
Similarly, girls have their preferences too and if you don’t meet their list of preferences, it doesn’t mean that it’s your fault completely!
In any case, if you are still feeling down about facing rejection then use the following methods to feel a little better:
Go see a movie
Choose a funny, romantic comedy or general comedy movie and enjoy the funny scenes in it. It will put you in a better mood for sure and you will end up feeling better at least for a few days.
Go clubbing with friends
There is nothing better than hanging out with friends to get over rejection. Go to a club and dance the night away. You will get to meet some new people too and this will help you forget about the rejection faster.
Join a gym
Focus on yourself, join a gym. A gym is a great way to network with other like-minded people too and the work out will help you feel a lot better at the end of the day, it will also give you more energy, leaving you refreshed and happier.
Join a music class
Try joining a music class or one where you can learn to play a musical instrument. It will definitely help you to get over the rejection because your mind will be more focused and occupied in learning how to play the instrument.
Indulge in your hobby
Everyone has a hobby. It’s pretty difficult to meet someone who doesn’t. So whatever your hobby is, indulge in it. If you like playing tennis, play loads of it, if you like golf – make a golf group and play the game! It will ease your mind and really help you get over the rejection.
The key to getting over a rejection is staying busy. Tidy your house, do extra work, meet friends, keep your mind busy. If your mind is busy there will be lesser chances and opportunities in thinking about the girl and the rejection.
Try to meet other girls
The world is full of people of all nationalities, tastes, creeds, etc. Make use of this fact and go out there and try to meet someone new. The world does not end when one girl rejects you. There are after all several fish in the sea.
Read self help books
Whenever you are done and for whatever reason it might be, self help books tons in sorting out a problem. They give people a fresh look and solution to the problem and make them feel like as though they are not alone. Invest in some books and read them in your spare time.
Plan a holiday
Plan a short holiday to a nearby resort or anywhere else you would like to go, depending on your budget. Take some close friends who make you laugh or some family members too. The company will keep your spirits up.
Reconnect with old friends and family members
Call up friends who you haven’t spoken to in a long time and reconnect with them. The catch up chat and the old memories will help you smile over the rejection.
List out your positive points and frame it
Everybody has positive traits and everyone has their share of negative traits too. Try to write down all your positive ones and read through them so that you feel better about yourself and eventually get over the rejection faster. What will also help is framing the list up so that it can act as a reminder of how good you are.