Being a good boyfriend should come naturally to you if you really love someone. If you have found that special girl and if you have decided to hold on to her then you better buck up and be the best boy she’s ever had.
Here is a little idea as to how:
Present her with gifts.
Don’t spoil her of course but gift her little things that make her smile. Even small key chains with both your names etched on it can be good.
Learn to pamper her enough
Girls need to know that a guy is serious about them and capable of looking after them. Drop her off and pick her up when you go out. Offer to take her to work a few times in the week…she’ll love the idea of you coming to get her.
Try to know her friends
Get to know her friends and don’t talk negatively about them. All girls have a group of 4-5 girl friends who they absolutely trust and need all the time. They share everything, from secrets to shampoo. So, get to know them because she will love the idea of you getting along with them.
Be a man – don’t hurt her
When you go out for your guy’s night outs, be a man. Don’t do things that she hears about that she doesn’t approve of.
Play games together
Teach her to play games that interest you. She’ll love being involved in things that you like and will look forward to challenging you to a game.
Manicures or anything she loves to do
If your girl is the kind who loves getting manicures, then treat her to them once in way. Pay for it and encourage her to go for her saloon appointments.
Compliment her, often. Keep telling her that she looks lovely. She did dress up to look good for you only after-all.
Appreciate her work
Appreciate her work and don’t make unnecessary jokes about it. Sometimes guys jokingly say things about their girlfriend’s jobs that make them feel bad. Avoid it. If she’s a working girl, support what she’s doing.
Get to know her family
Meet her family and be formal yet friendly with her parents. If you get along with her family, she’ll love you more and more and more.
Go for holidays
Plan holidays together, take her to places that you know she’ll like. If she likes shopping, take her to a shopping destination, if she likes the beach- Hawaii!
Cook for her
In today’s times it isn’t right to expect your girl to be the one to cook for you always. Cook her a fancy meal with your own bare hands and choose a cuisine you know she loves.
Try to encourage her to practice her hobbies. Most times people just have hobbies but no time to do anything about them. Don’t let her be one of those people. Use the weekend to encourage her to follow her hobbies. If she likes dancing, take her to a dance class or amateur dance competition!
Every girl has a fetish
Find out what your girls fetish is. Some love shoes and own hundred pairs as a result. Some like bags and have every size, color and kind that’s available. Find out what your girl likes and gift her things that are her fetish.
Don’t be too possessive
Girls like it when guys show they care but then again, if you start asking her too many questions and start mothering her, she’ll bail. So be chilled out and understanding.
Girls like diamonds
That’s never been a secret. If you can afford it and if you have been with her for a long time, then gift her a pair of diamonds sometime.
Show your feelings to her
If you are serious about making things work with your girl, drop hints. Invite her to spend time with you and your family. Invite her to spend time with your friends. Show her that you want her to be part of your daily life.
Make way for open communication
Share all your problems with her and ask her to do the same with you. Eventually you will rely on each other for any solution that’s ever needed.
Hold her, hug her often
Make her feel loved with simple physical gestures. Even opening a car door for her or entrance door for her will be highly appreciated.
Just remember that girls like it simple and don’t need a lot in a relationship besides honesty and commitment. So give her this with a mix of the tips above and watch your relationship flower.