If you have come across a guy who seems interesting and you are dying to go out with him, the first thing you need to do is to find out if he already has a girlfriend or not.
If he doesn’t have a girlfriend then your mission will be a lot easier and won’t induce feelings of guilt in you!
And if you find that the guy you like is already in a relationship with a girl and if you still can’t stop thinking about him, then there are ways where you can get that guy to like you instead.
However, first ask yourself – are you willing to break up two perfectly happy people for your own selfish gains?
Then put yourself in the other person’s shoes. If you were the one in the relationship and there was a girl out there who was interested in your guy and was trying to get your guy, how would you feel?
And, if you still are sure that you want to go ahead and get that guy and that guy only, then read the following tips to get the guy who already has a girl. A few tips to steal the guy:
Impress him with your looks
It’s a known fact and a very commonly known one that guys look at any pretty girl on the street, whether the guy is with someone or not doesn’t matter. Use this fact to your advantage. Dress like a model and bank on your good looks to get him to notice you. Half the battle is won once he notices you and your good looks and starts checking you out.
Go over and talk to him
Once he has noticed you, he won’t mind having a word or two with you. So, go over and talk to him. If he is with another girl, smile at both of them and strike up a general conversation, maybe one about the weather. It will give you a chance to interact with your crush. If the guy is alone, then all you need to do is talk, talk, talk and get him to take you on a date!
Act confident and sensuous when you see him with his girl
When a guy is with his girl and when he is checking another girl out at the same time, the chances of the girlfriend getting jealous and picking a fight are pretty high. Use this to your advantage. Get the two of them to fight over you and when the girl walks away, (its usually the girl who walks away) you can go over to the guy and talk.
Befriend the girlfriend
Let the girlfriend not feel insecure about you, this way you can befriend her and get some more inputs on the guy, regarding what he likes, dislikes and how he is as a person. The phrase, keep your friends close but enemies closer comes in handy here. Use the information that you collect from the girlfriend to woo the guy!
Send him gifts he’ll like
Once you collect some information about your guy – send him gifts that suit his tastes and likes. He will have to call you or meet you or contact you somehow to thank you for the thoughtful gesture…and when he does so, talk to him like a girl who is interested for him to get the picture.
Find reasons to hang out with him
This depends on where you met the guy you like. If you met him through work, find ways to meet him post working hours to “discuss a project”. This will give you an excuse to spend some time with him. If you saw a guy you liked in a bar and he was with his girlfriend, find a reason to go over and talk to both of them.