16 Ways to Fix a Relationship After One Partner Has Cheated

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Cheating on your partner shakes the very base of the relationship and it is very difficult to behave normally and rationally once the faith goes away. But, if your love for your partner is encouraging you to give your relationship another try, kudos to you. After all, cheating doesn’t always mean that both of you should move on. It can also be a warning sign, your last chance to fix the small glitches in your relationship so that you can spend the rest of your life with your partner happily. Here are ways to fix a relationship after one partner has cheated:

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Decide whether both of you want to get over everything and move on

When a cheating partner first comes clean, it creates utter chaos in the life of both the individuals. Both of you need to do some serious thinking to decide whether or not this relationship is worth another chance. If you both want to give it a try, then you will have to forget the episode in its entirety and move on. It’s not going to be easy and neither will the two of you forget about it in a day but you will have to try. There is no point in being with someone if you keep thinking about the bitter things.

Talk about what went wrong and why

The cheating partner will have to gather some courage to initiate an honest discussion about everything that resulted in the cheating and talk about what happened. Unless everything becomes transparent between the two of you, it will be difficult to establish trust or faith.

Be very patient and understanding when your partner talks about why he/she cheated

If your partner is the one who cheated, you will have to be patient and calm while hearing all the details. This is probably the most difficult part of the reconciliation process but nevertheless important. Make a genuine effort to understand their point of view because identifying the root cause is the only way you can avoid such a situation in the future.

If you are the cheating partner, make a sincere apology

On the other hand, if you have cheated on your partner, you will have to be more than sincere when you apologize to your partner. Keep in mind that one apology will not be enough and you will have to think of numerous ways to let you partner know how sorry you feel about your actions.

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Stop wishing for the past to change because it won’t

Don’t go into self loathing and wish for things to change because it won’t. The damage has already been done and no amount of reproach, guilt or self pity is going to change that. Instead, focus on things you can do now to reduce the hurt and the pain of your partner. If your partner cheated on you, he/she is probably not that happy either so try to establish a stronger relationship from the ashes of the old one.

Think about ways to improve things in the relationship

There are many ways to improve a relationship but know that the effort has to come from both individuals. Try going out on romantic dates, spend time with each other and talk about everything that bothers both of you. There is nothing that an honest and deep conversation cannot solve.

Once you have discussed the reasons for cheating, don’t play the blame game in future conversations

When the discussion is finally over, lock those thoughts and live like this event never happened. The blame game is not going to do anything good for your relationship. Some things are better left in the past.

Give your partner another chance with all your heart

When you decide to give your partner another chance, don’t just do it for the sake of it. You need to give your relationship a chance from the core of your heart. Otherwise, you will never be interested or willing to make any efforts in improving things between your partner and yourself.

Ask him/her to erase the other person from his life

When the two of you decide to let go of the past and move on with your relationship, the cheating partner has to let go of the other woman or man completely.

Push yourself to not distrust them

Even though your partner has broken your trust once, don’t tell yourself that he/she will do it again. Don’t think about all their moves or scrutinize everything they say. You might have to force yourself to believe what they say initially but it is absolutely necessary in order to have a healthy relationship.

Trust them but not blindly because that would be foolishness

Don’t be foolish in your actions. You should not over analyze everything they do to look for any signs of cheating but at the same time, don’t be blind to the possibility of them doing something wrong. They might be acting strange because they are nervous about being around you after cheating on you but don’t show blind faith on them.

Explore new options with them

Do something new together. It can be anything from trying a new cuisine to living a childhood fantasy and going to Disney-world. You can also think about skydiving, para sailing and just about anything under the sun.

Plan a trip for two to liven up the romance

Another great idea would be to go for a second honeymoon. Take some time to unwind and clear your heads. It will be a fun thing for the both of you where you will get the opportunity to spend hours with each other and reignite the missing romance.

Both of you will have to make a lot of effort so be prepared

Don’t hold back in making efforts. Both of you will have to contribute to give your decision some results and your relationship another chance. Even though this is going to be difficult, stay optimistic and motivate each other. For all you know, the cheating was a big lesson that both of you needed to learn in order to make this relationship stronger.

Do small things that make him or her happy, even if you have to push yourself for it

Small things can make a big difference. Think about the little things you’d do for each other when the relationship had started and rekindle those moments. Consider this pause as a fresh beginning to be with someone you love and to show someone what they mean to you.

Understand that it’s going to need compassion and forgiveness, not just love

Love is not the only thing you will need to mend the damage. Love is just one of the many elements that result in a happy and strong relationship. So, be ready to give it all you got and pray for things to become better.

  • Oliver

    How is it even possible to feel like fixing anything with someone who broke your trust and made a mockery out of the relationship! I can never think about being with somebody who’s broken my trust once! But yea, if i really wanted to sort things out, these tips would be pretty practical and useful

  • Candice

    I don’t really see a lot of point in wasting time trying to figure out what can be done… If you partner’s cheated, dump him. You ain’t god so you don’t have to bother about giving second chances. Once a cheater, always a cheater!

  • Layla

    If you think your partner deserves another chance because feel that you were responsible for everything even in a small way, I guess you should give him another chance. I would have.

  • Marie

    If you love the person and you know he or she realizes the grass wasn’t greenier on the other side give them a chance. If they mess up again let them see you happy with someone else who cares about how you would feel about being cheated on or hurt.

  • Lacy

    I have cheated before. For the first time after 4 hard years.. I was in an abusive and mean controlled relationship. I felt bad to leave him alone. And so, I started pushing myself away, once that happened, it took a year for me to tell him, and I begged him to leave me, he wanted to work things out, and it has been a month since I told him, and he still questions me everyday,. So. It’s not worth working it out.

  • http://google bianca

    Cheating isn’t just having sex with someone it cud be talking to someone of the opposite sex in not doing it for the world to see but in a privately manner because you know your not suppose to be chat in it up when your in a relationship but I feel better knowing this is my situation in we can get through it with these step I have faith we will for the sake if our family where building together

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  • Jessie j

    Let it go

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  • Lyev Mahrk

    Being attracted to the same sex in countries like USA,UK Canada is really easily as i have heard.There are still people there who don’t like people like us but it not as bad as that of Russia cos here we are beaten jailed and sometimes even killed.You can’t hold the hand of the one you care about in the public so as to avoid been harassed we can even set a place to me cos if we are caught we face jail time.Here in Russia we gay are prisoner in our own country.I am currently in a relation with my fiance and we had to leave Russia to be together.Before now his parent were against our relationship cos they had no idea he was gay we sneaked around knowing the risks if we were to be caught.When he finally got heart to tell him family the rejected him and asked he stops seeing me or they were going to turn him in and that scared him a lot his father is a very powerful man in Russia and he made it possible for him not to be able to live the country i mean as long as you have money in Russia anything goes.I was lucky they never got to meet me cos if they did i would have not been here right now writing this article that you are all reading.Probably i would have been in jail.Months passed and there was no way we could see each other cos they had him watched to make sure he is never get to meet me and also to know the person the was he was practicing this profane act with as they called it.They stripped him of all his right to the family assets and made him an outcast i could see he was suffering form the text he was sending me they made his life miserable and made him end our relationship.I knew he was confused and did know what to do to get his life back to make his family see him the way they use to.And i knew that his family were never going to accept his life style cos they are so anti gay.If they were to be a fund riser to fight gay practice in Russia his family will be the first to ask that they host it.I love him so much but he was scared of him family and they also had a grip on him.I know most person don’t believe in what about to say but still if it wasn’t for Mutton Osun a spell caster that i found on the internet i would not have been writing this.It happened maybe by a slim chance or fate that i was a blog were it happened that i read three distinct comment about how he help them with similar problem.I contacted him with an email address that was in the comment.I asked Mutton Osun to cast a spell to make my then boyfriend to make up his mind to run away from Russia with me to be together and also his family as in his father to make it possible for him to leave Russia with me and set a very comfortable life for us were we were going.And i know doing spells with someone you can’t even see is outrageous but i promise you he makes you feel more at else when he calls and he really goes through with his promise cos he did with mine he was really helpful to him and kind.And like other people said he doesn’t even charge you for what he is doing for you.I had to provide some list of materials that he asked that i get for my spell casting.I preferred that i sent the money down to him cos they were not easy to find and even when i found them it was so expensive but he could get them cheaply.He instructed me on how to make the spell work with great effect.It took 7 seven day and night to see it result.On the seventh night my boyfriend call me to tell me we could finally be together cos his father did agreed to do all i asked mutton osun to make him do i just knew at once it was Mutton Osun spell cos it what i asked for and now me and fiance are the happiest right now we can hold hand now without fear of being harassed or sent to jail for we are in love and we are very comfortable here.His father made sure everything was set before we even got here just like i asked it should be.Am going to also leave Mutton Osun email here just like others have done for contact purpose godsofosunx@rocketmail.com

  • BRUNELDA NATO

    Probably all this testimony you read about spell casting online are spam right?And yeah some are spam some think all of them are spam which is totally not bad and i also know some believe spell casting really works but have not been able to find the right one. Well i think i found the right spell caster Metodo. I know he is real not cos he helped me but because i was there in his temple i Have seen him and his temple and i tell you it can’t get more really that what am writing now. I know you may want to know why and what lead me to contact a spell caster i am a south African woman here in south African as a matter of fact in Africa having a male child is like the most important thing in a marriage and it turned out that i am married to a very traditional man as in a he believes the male child carry the family name on and on but the females get married and change there name which is true. I were married for six years and i had no male child for him .Maybe friends and family filled his head with a lot of things like i don’t have a male child for him and as a result he need to get a divorce and get another wife that can bear him a male child. I always thought the people that filled his head with this ideas where is family and friends the people that i smile and dine with. The very people who ought to have advice him rightly. I never found out if they where involved in wanting to ruin life and my marriage. Not because i could not find out but cost i didn’t want to develop hatred for them cos i will always get to see them and it is not really healthy seeing the faces of people you hate. At that time, i mean before i knew my husband got himself a lover i was paranoid about him having a lover cos our lives changed a lot he starting coming home late he wouldn’t touch me any more and even he started avoiding me in our home making up excuses to stay all day in his study room doing nothing and telling me his need something off to clear his head. We had fights all the time i brought up the matter if he was see someone else. Maybe he got tired of lying i don’t know he finally asked for a divorce. A divorce my family saw him through his university and got him a got job i told myself and now he’s asking me for a divorce cos i don’t a male child yet for him. He was ready to let go of his three beautiful daughters he asked that i take them along. Maybe he was a real f**l and didn’t know what he had and maybe he didn’t deserve someone like me but one thing was crystal clear to me i was still in love with him and i wanted a complete family for my kid that and the fact that i raised him from the gutter i didn’t care about any of his problem when i married him and i forgot to say my father never approved our marriage but still i jumped into it thinking we are going to have each other forever. Though we are still together now but its cos of the spell i had metodo cast on him to make him see how much he needs me in this life. When i contacted metodo he asked that i get the materials for the spell which i did and delivered the materials to him in person that is to say i came in contact with him. I was to return in to his temple in 7 seven day and within those seven day he gave me a blessed a red candle asking that i command and say whatever i wanted every night within those seven days which i did on the seventh day when i returned to metodo temple he gave a harmless powerful substance with instruction on how to use it. This might seem like fiction or lie or what ever you lucky reads may think but deep down you know it true you just looking for a way not to get involved. I ve got my husband back and my family life couldn’t be better thanks to the spell though i don’t have a male child for him at least his them lover bore him one. contact him with his email if you want his help metodoacamufortress @ yahoo. com

  • Leonids Balodis

    After reading BRUNELDA NATO comment on laurenconrad. com about Metodo helping her cast a spell to fix her relationship, i was hmm.. will say considering doing the same thing cos my life was a total mess. On one hand my girlfriend now soon to be fiancé parent did not want me to be their son-in-law cos i did not belong to the upper class community and on the other hand, i moved from Latvia where my life and job was to be with my soon to be fiancé in Azerbaijan. I had no home there but just the apartment we both bought together. If am not mistaking her father is a famous lawyer to almost every rich person in Azerbaijan. She was going to help me get a job in her father law firm before she broke up with me because she was going to marry one of her father client. All this was before i contacted Metodo to see what he could for me. As i said her father was against our relationship and she was going to marry a 53 years old man for his money. She has always loved materials things but i never thought she would pick money over me. We were still see each other not as lover but secret lovers. I loved her too much to be sharing with a disgusting old man because he was rich. I don’t mean to disrespect any elderly person i just don’t like it when rich old or young persons try to take or take someone you hold dearly to your heart cos they have the money to do so. In my own case it happened that it was an old rich man wanting to take the woman i loved and still loved with all my heart and strength. She didn’t want to marry me but she wanted to be my lover in secret. I knew she loved me dearly but she was also in love with all the money and assets the man had. she knew i was content with what i had and what she had but she wanted to be so rich like adding riches ti what she already had. The date of the wedding was already set when i realized that if i don’t do something to stop the wedding i would lost her forever. It happened that i came across BRUNELDA NATO comment on laurenconrad. com as i search the INTERNET on how to make a woman realize living without you will be a great mistake where she wrote how metodo the spell caster helped her fix her marriage and how she came face to face in contact with Metodo and also how real and awesome he is. I just felt compelled to also contact him for help maybe i was not thinking clearly or i felt it was my only chance to make sure she soon to be fiancé doesn’t marry anyone else but me or maybe i felt both ways. I know something was clear to me that whatever action i took was my last chance to win her back. There and then i contacted Metodo cos i had no money to travel all the way to Chad. I just trusted BRUNELDA NATO testimony that he really exist and can help me solve my problem. It turned out that BRUNELDA NATO was right. Now i can also truthfully tell you that Metodo is really something out of ordinary he is the greatest spell caster you can ever meet. He sent me some items that he told me to use to pray with within the 7 days he was casting the spell i asked him to help me cast with the materials he told me to provide to for the spell casting. Within those seven days of incantation pray my soon to be fiancé developed something i don’t know what to call in her head that made the love she had for me resurface i say resurface love because she became that girl i fell in love with back in Latvia she told me she was going to call of the wedding but was scared what would happen to her father relationship with the man. But all those worried faded when Metodo sent the spell that looked like a powdery substances with instruction on how to make it effective. She called off the wedding and nothing happened it was like no one cared anymore not the man or her parent almost like it idea was yipped of their head. Whether anyone believe me or not it does really matter the only thing i care to say here is that Metodo is the ultimate spell caster anyone can ever ask for help. Am going to leave his mail in case Metodoacamufortress@yahoo. com