Who wouldn’t want to be irresistible to a man? Every day, women all over the world spend thousands of dollars to buy the right dress and create the perfect look to impress men. The key to being irresistible is a mystery that women try to unfold at every step, whether they are single or not. The charm and appeal of a woman exceeds the boundaries of good looks and the right dress. It involves her body language, her self confidence and the air she exudes. Here are some quick tips on how to be irresistible to men:
If you want to attract a man, don’t be an open book. You don’t have to be dishonest with him but don’t reveal everything to him right away. Take your time and allow your charm to impress him. Let him know that he has to work hard to grab your attention. This is like a power struggle. If you give in to his charms before he does to yours, he will be able to read you like a book and the appeal will wane away really quick.
Don’t forget your own life
If you want a man to find you tempting, appear busy. Take your own time to notice his presence even if he has been looking at you for quite some time. Don’t look at him and smile instantly. If you are out with your friends, have a ball. Let him know that you weren’t out looking for a guy.
Stay calm and composed
Don’t nag. Nagging girlfriends drive men away. If he doesn’t call you back as promised, remain calm. Don’t make a big deal out of it. Learn to be composed at all times. If he forgets something, just gently remind him instead of blaming him and shouting at him. Men just love women who can control themselves.
Be a chirpy and fun loving person
You don’t have to be worried or uptight all the time. The world doesn’t owe you anything so live every moment of your life as it is. Follow your heart and encourage others to do so. Let your cheerful and vivacious self come out of the closet.
Let your body language speak for you
Body language plays the most important role in the game of attraction. Like women, men form a mental image of a woman’s personality based on the way she stands, moves around and talks to people so your body language can work for or against you.
Don’t be an emotional mess
Emotional baggage is a huge turnoff for men. They don’t get attracted to women who can’t pull themselves together so keep your emotions at home. Even your boyfriend will get disturbed the minute you become excessively emotional. Men aren’t good at handling emotions so they don’t like being overburdened with them.
Look after yourself
No one will be attracted to you unless you look the part. And, I am not talking about your clothes or makeup. I am talking about the way you look after yourself. It reflects in your skin and your hygiene. Go ahead and pamper yourself every now and then. Go to the Spa and relax. Always be in a cheerful state of mind.
Dress to kill
Don’t be scared to look sexy. Instead of thinking about how short or low a dress is, think about how amazing it looks on you. Wear clothes that accentuate your best features. If you have long, smooth legs, show them off with a short number. Reveal your sexy back to the world. But make sure you are comfortable in your dress and feel confident enough to carry it.
Don’t be a needy girlfriend
How do you expect your boyfriend to consider you as irresistible when you give him a list of things you need every time he tries to go near you? Whether your needs are emotional or materialistic, don’t expect him to fulfill all of them and don’t share all of them with him. Let him understand you better to understand your needs. Emotionally demanding and clingy women have an ‘anti-charm’ ring around them.
Look after him but don’t lose yourself
As a girlfriend, you are supposed to look after him but remember to look after yourself and your needs as well. It’s very easy to forget about yourself when you like someone but this devotion has the opposite effect on guys and it can even drive them away.
Be positive and confident
Allow your confidence and your positive attitude to radiate. A little confidence goes a long way and men just love women who ooze self confidence. They get really attracted to women who know what they want and they know how to get it.
Don’t be scared to appreciate him
Men love women who can appreciate them without undermining their own worth. Praising a guy can definitely inflate his ego but if channeled the right way, it can help you to attract him. Praise from someone who speaks her mind is something every guy wants.
Be proud and be yourself
Know what you have and be proud of all your qualities, be it your facial features, your body, your intellect or a combination of all of these. Unless you know where you stand, you will never be able to evaluate or improve yourself so embrace reality and feel proud of yourself.
A little sense of humor goes a long way
Men love women who have a strong wit. A sense of humor a guy can relate to is a rarity in a woman so if you are looking for ways to attract him and capture his attention, use your wit.
A dominating tendency in women can be very attractive if done within a limit. Some men find an assertive attitude completely irresistible so don’t be afraid to make the first move. You can be slightly bold in handling stereotypical gallantry traditions if your man likes assertive women.